Sunday, June 19, 2011

Happy Dad's Day

Happy Dad's Day to all the wonderful men in my life...
This is one of the first father's day I have not spent with my own father..and it is a little rough...
we would be out on the golf course and then grilling out afterwards...actually my dad would be grilling and I would be talking his leg off!!

I have had the privilege of having so many wonderful men in my life- my grandfather who unfortunately left this world too early, a father in law EJ Trial who treats me just like his own daughter, a awesome brother in law who is a great father to my niece and nephew Syd and Sawyer, and now I am having the privilege to watch all my girlfriends who are having children- watch their husbands and what great dad's they are. I always knew my friends made very wise choices about the men they decided to marry (i mean would anyone expect me to be friends with anything less than highly intelligent..educated..driven women??)...but seeing how they take care of some of the most special women in my life and how they mold into being a great dad...it just makes your heart so happy!

So many people say..I bet (talking about the man) he wants a boy..or he wants a son...and while he might...there is a special bond between a dad and his little girl....that one can not explain or understand but one that is life long.
A daughter will always need her father...whether she is grown and married...just call my dad and ask him....he will tell you he still gets plenty of .."um dad" calls (even though we are all 3 married)

So happy fathers day to all you great and wonderful men out there...you have touched so many lives....

Friday, June 17, 2011

story people...

This is a wheelbarrow I filled with all my dreams & my favorite clothes & now all I need is someone to help me push it.
-story people

for those of you who have never read the quotes of story people you really should...
my friend paula introduced me to story people several years ago!

well i just read this and it made me think of my hubby..he is the someone who helps me push it and pull it when needed...
he is so wonderful and makes me so very happy...
I packed my life up and moved across country for this man and he makes sure I know each and everyday how much he appreciates it..and appreciates me

check out what i have been eating!!

http://edengardencafe.com/

I know I know I am super behind on my blog post...
But for all of you who know me..know i am a picky eater...well since being married and meeting my good friend Nate- my pallet has definetly been expanded.
Above is my latest adventures in the world of food..Lebanese (see website above)

We actually went for one of TC's pharmacist graduation...Samir

Well it was supposed to start at 7pm...and we were freaking out because we were 15 minutes late...we were like sending a text like.."so sorry we are running behind"
well we got there..we were the 1st ones there other than Samir and his wife...
THey then informed us that no one would be there until at least 8 or 8:30...
And i thought our culture was always late...

so the restuarant was beautiful...we were seated outside and it was so pretty- it was like a garden outside...(we forgot our camera so I dont have any pics..sorry guys)

So then Samir let us try one of their homemade drinks...Arak
Oh my gosh..i wish I had a picture of my face...it had a licorce taste..and i despise licorce..i basically threw up in my mouth...it was horrible...tc could not even drink it and he can usually eat or drink anything...
So this is how my cultural experience started out
Arak or Araq (Arabic: عرق pronounced [ʕɑrɑq], is a highly alcoholic spirit (~50%-63% Alc. Vol./~100-126 proof). It is a clear, colorless, unsweetened anise-flavoured distilled alcoholic drink(also labeled as an Apéritif). It is the traditional alcoholic beverage of Iraq,[1] Israel, Lebanon, Jordan, and Syria, and is also produced and consumed in other Eastern Mediterranean andNorth Africa[2]. Arak is also a liquor (generally >100 proof) found throughout Indonesia that is distilled from tuak, a sweet wine made from the coconut palm flower, or from brem, which is a wine made from black glutinous rice and coconut milk. Although Indonesian arak may be found bottled commercially, more commonly it is sold in warungs and other local shops filled within plastic bags sealed with a rubber band at the top. At the time of writing (2011) the price for a ~1 liter bag is ~20,000 rupiah, just around 2 USD

Well then around 9pm we finally started getting some food...one of the first things looked to be raw hamburger meat...now i know i said i was getting adventurous but that stuff was not going to go anywhere near my mouth...
Of course my husband ate it and I was pretty much convinced he was going to die of e-coli before we got home...
We got several different courses of food..and I did try several different things..i really wish i could remember the names of all the food but i was totally overwhelmed.
So when my parents come out here in sept we are taking them to some form of ethnic restaurant..and this one is on the list.

So we sat with some of Samir's family....they were from Jordan and had moved to CA several years ago...
Oh I forgot to mention this was also a hookah lounge..and the couple we were sitting beside smoked the hookah the whole night-one lady had apple flavored tobacco and one had watermelon...
It was definitely interesting to watch this during dinner...
They were there with their son and daughter...they were telling us about how their daughter was getting married to a gentleman in Jordan in a couple of months..and how they would be traveling back to Jordan for the wedding...and an interesting fact is the grooms family pays for the wedding in their culture...
A hookah (Hindustani: हुक़्क़ा (Devanagari), حقّہ (Nastaleeq) huqqah)[1][2] also known as a waterpipe[3] or narghile, is a single or multi-stemmed (often glass-based) instrument for smoking in which the smoke is cooled by water. The tobacco smoked is referred to as shisha (sheesha) in the United Kingdom, United States and Canada.[4] According to Cyril Elgood (pp. 41, 110), who does not mention his source, it was Abu’l-Fatḥ Gīlānī (d. 1588), a Persian physician at the court of the Mughal emperor Akbar I, who “first passed the smoke of tobacco through a small bowl of water to purify and cool the smoke and thus invented the hubble-bubble or hookah.” However, a quatrain of Ahlī Šīrāzī (d. 1535) refers to the use of the ḡalyān (Falsafī, II, p. 277; Semsār, 1963, p. 15), thus dating its use at least as early as the time of Ṭahmāsp I (1524–76). It seems, therefore, that Abu’l-Fatḥ Gīlānī should be credited with the introduction of the ḡalyān, already in use in Persia, to India. Smoking the hookah has gained popularity, especially in the Middle East and is gaining popularity in North America, South America, Europe andAustralia.[2]

TC and I skipped out on dessert because it was now almost 11pm..and we were exhausted..it is truly an all night event to go eat..I dont see how they ever get anything done..haha

It was a wonderful night and we were so happy we got to experience the whole culture- food, stories, drinks, and the hookah- it was a pretty full evening!

Have a good weekend everyone
lots of love from CA!!
k


Thursday, June 9, 2011

Anyone for another Syd story...

haha..i know how you all love my Syd stories...well here is one that will get you..

So I celebrated my 29th bday last Sunday...no comments please

Well Alison told Syd they had to go to target to get me a b-day card...
And Syd proceeds to tell Alison she knows exactly what I have been wanting....and that they could pick it up at target...
So when they got there syd goes..mom karen wants a tinkerbell...alison replied are you sure..or is that what Sydney wants..she said no mom she wants a tinkerbell so she can use her wings and fly home from CA....
Yep..no need to say anything...

Story #2
Buddy the Dog-
My brother in laws dog- Buddy had to be put to sleep a couple of months ago...
Sydney loved buddy dog...and she really took it hard (she has a pic of buddy dog framed in her room)
So the other day in the car she said..mom..buddy is in heaven right..
Alison said yep he sure is...
She said.."i really miss my buddy dog"
Alison said I know you do syd..we all do
Syd goes is he in heaven because Jesus wanted my dog as a pet??
haha...the things that go thru her head...

Stay tuned I will be posting again this weekend of my latest food experiment!

much love and happy friday to everyone